Episode 152. Surviving the Silly Season Sober (and enjoying it!) with Abby Calabrese
Ep 152. Surviving the Silly Season Sober (and enjoying it!) with Abby Calabrese
In the heart of New York City, Abby Calabrese was living the dream on paper but the reality was she was quietly unravelling behind the scenes. Long days, late nights, and a culture steeped in drinking turned alcohol into her go-to coping mechanism, even as the cost to her wellbeing grew harder to ignore.
In this episode, Abby shares how walking away from alcohol became the catalyst for a complete identity shift and the creation of Alcohol Free Rebellion, a movement dedicated to helping others question the role alcohol plays in their lives. Ash and Abby dive into the awkwardness of social events without a drink in hand, the emotional honesty that sobriety demands, and how choosing not to numb out can radically transform relationships and self-worth.
Abby offers practical guidance for facing triggers, especially during the holidays, while staying anchored in intention, community, and self-compassion. She speaks to the power of mindfulness in strengthening intuition and making choices that truly align with who you are. At the heart of her story are the non-negotiables she now lives by: authenticity, emotional awareness, and unwavering self-care as the foundation of a full, meaningful, alcohol-free life.
Episode Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Abby Calabrese and Her Journey
02:53 Navigating Life After Alcohol
05:45 The Challenge of Socializing Sober
08:29 Understanding Emotions and Feelings
11:34 Shifting Perspectives on Life
14:20 The Impact of Alcohol on Relationships
17:25 Hiding Behind a Smile: Abby's Photo Story
20:02 Recognizing Rock Bottoms and Justifications
22:48 The Roots of Abby's Drinking History
24:19 The Role of Alcohol in Socialization
29:29 Recognizing the Problem
32:21 The Turning Point
37:24 The Challenge of Sobriety
38:44 Shame and Stigma in Motherhood
43:59 Transforming Relationships in Sobriety
45:46 Embracing Authenticity in Relationships
47:22 Navigating Sobriety During the Holidays
49:16 Practical Tips for Alcohol-Free Celebrations
53:40 Listening to Your Intuition
56:50 Cultivating Mindfulness and Self-Awareness
01:02:36 Non-Negotiables for a Fulfilling Life
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