Episode 127. GRIT Over Glory: Former AFL Star Steven Baker on Grief, Identity & Redemption
Ep 127. GRIT Over Glory: Former AFL Star Steven Baker on Grief, Identity & Redemption
In this raw and inspiring conversation, Ash is joined by former AFL player Steven Baker who opens up about his story including life after football, hitting rock bottom and turning his life around.
After being unexpectedly cut from his AFL career, Steven spiraled into grief, substance abuse, and deep depression, especially following the death of his father. He opens up about how a life of discipline and team camaraderie gave way to escapism, endless partying, and identity loss.
Ash and Steven explore the emotional aftermath of elite sport, the stigma around men’s mental health, and what finally helped Steven turn things around. From creating a GRIT model for schools, to competitive boxing, to daily gratitude and appreciation practices.
Steven shares a powerful message of mental resilience, vulnerability, and hope.
The episode highlights are:
00:00 Introduction to Authenticity and Resilience
02:03 Stephen Baker: From AFL Star to Inspirational Speaker
07:58 Facing Personal Struggles: The Dark Side of Fame
12:03 The Impact of Grief and Depression
19:57 Finding Strength Through Fitness and Community
21:58 The Power of Gratitude and Resilience
26:00 Turning Points: A Journey from Darkness to Light
30:42 Breaking the Silence: Men's Mental Health
32:00 Building a Morning Routine for Success
39:07 Giving Back: Inspiring the Next Generation
42:04 Finding Motivation in Dark Times
You can connect with Steven on his Instagram here.
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• Alcoholics Anonymous
• Lifeline or Beyond Blue (Australia)
• CheckPoint (Global)
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